Have you ever noticed when, in a personal relationship, more often a longterm one than not, you want to change your habits your significant other is so well-trained to respond to and reinforce old habits that you find yourself in a vicious cycle of trying to change not only how people perceive you but also how to change your and your partner’s behaviour sets?

Isn’t that why new relationships can seem so refreshing, giving you the freedom to be someone new without struggling against a network that’s statically stable no matter how dysfunctional?

What if a family, subculture or larger human structure (city, state, citystate) wants to change?

How accommodating are we to let ourselves and our neighbours change who we are to become who we want to be?

How much do our personalities depend on people who are trying to get unstuck from personality traits that are no longer healthy to/for them?

In other words, how much does your happiness depend on someone’s unhappiness? Should it?

In an essay of 1000 words, explain why or why not.